Stay single, fall in love with yourself first. Don’t buy into the hype. Don’t lie to get someone’s body. Don’t fool yourself into a relationship. Be clear about what you want. Make sure it isn’t a decision stemmed from loneliness. Be honest about what you need. Be honest about what you have to offer. Be satisfied with not getting what you want. Don’t manipulate. Open communication. Be blunt. Be respectful. Be happy with or without someone. Know whether you’re in bed with a one-night stand or at the pulpit for marriage, that you didn’t lie to yourself or someone else to get there.
There’s no answer. You just need to have someone you trust trust you back. Or lie to yourself. That works for some people.
If I could lie to myself, I’d be in love right now.
^^^ if you want to meet people, go out and talk to people you see, but don’t set yourself on finding someone…
Honestly, it is just a waiting game. It’s a really shitty waiting game at times, but that’s ultimately what it all comes down to.
what kills me vibe is nine times out of ten i am ok with it, until i meet a guy that makes me feel like he wants something more. But in reality he just enjoyed the benefits of me, but not me…
try to find events where you’ll have similar interests, it’s amazing how far a common interest will go.
The club doesn’t count? lol jk
If you force something it won’t be genuine
I agree, however if I don’t put myself out there I will have a lesser chance of getting it. I can’t make someone love me, fall for me, like me.. But I can make myself more noticable. I just don’t know how.. I also feel like I am attracting me who just want friends with benefits, and that bothers me.
Ok guys… I need help..?
I am so tired of being single, I am in all the wrong places to find love.
Advice…. Beyond just wait for it to happen, I can’t help but wait.